Sunday, May 24, 2009

How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space

Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship
in their life,when suddenly everything which seems so
perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space.
There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend
may suddenly need space, including family problems,
insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few.
Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get
my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.

- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow
him to get the best of you - But clearly you are still in
love with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to
get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss
and not your own.

- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings
for you,then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation
with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the
level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone
calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way
to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without
overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want
and need space.

- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you
again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly
begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily
on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past.
While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to
want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in
case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.

- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances,
you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested
in you right now,or he really does just need space and you should give
it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more
than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue
gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.

- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open
your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate
or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about
rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his
signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back
and let things happen more naturally.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the
initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these
aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of
how to get my true love back.
T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called
"The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us.
Now we are more in love than ever.